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The Art of the Table

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Coming together to share a meal is one of our most vital traditions. Whether dining with friends, family, or business associates, we know that an elegant setting and gracious manners bring a sense of harmony and order to the occasion. Yet when it comes to knowing precisely how to set a table for formal and informal dining, which fork is for dessert and which for appetizer, how to serve different types of wine -- even how to eat certain foods -- many of us are not fully confident.

Suzanne von Drachenfels learned this firsthand in her career as an expert on table setting, tableware, and etiquette. Conducting seminars throughout the country, she would hear the same questions again and again: Should bread be buttered entirely or bite by bite? What is the purpose of holding a wine glass by the stem or by the base? Is handmade crystal worth the price difference?

The Art of the Table answers all these questions and more. A treasure trove of timeless information, this complete guide is to the table what Joy of Cooking is to the kitchen. Von Drachenfels shows

us how to select, lay, and use tableware to enhance any dining experience, and how to properly store and care for it -- whether it's your grandmother's porcelain or everyday stainless steel.She provides guidance on mixing and matching tableware patterns; the basics of coffee, tea, and wine; menu planning; napkin folding; and the proper service techniques for all types of entertainment. So as not to let the lore of the table fall away, she delves deep into the history of specific tableware and the customs we keep, making today's practices understandable.

For the novice host, this is an easy-to-follow, step-by-step guide with more than one hundred helpful illustrations. For the host with more experience, it is a rich and exciting source of new ideas. Like it's author, whose passion for the table is contagious, The Art of the Table is an authoritative, elegant, and sophisticated resource for all one's dining needs.

Contents

Preface 15

Part I: Dining Fundamentals
Chapter 1 Words Used in Table Setting

21

Chapter 2 The Difference Between Formal and Informal Dining 23
     

Part II: Dinnerware

Chapter 3 From Pottery to Porcelain 29
Chapter 4 Decorative Methods and Styles 54
Chapter 5 The Different Categories of Dinnerware 69
Chapter 6 Plates: Piece by Piece 81
Chapter 7 Bowls: Large to Small 96
Chapter 8 Cups: One and All 107
Chapter 9 How to Lay Dinnerware 116
Chapter 10 The Interchange of Dinnerware 119
Chapter 11 Serverware: At the Table and in the Home 122
Chapter 12 How to Purchase Dinnerware 136
Chapter 13 The Care of Dinnerware 146
     
Part III: Flatware
Chapter 14 From Silver to Sterling 153
Chapter 15 Decorative Methods and Styles 162
Chapter 16 The Different Types of Metal Flatware 170
Chapter 17 The Knife 178
Chapter 18 The Spoon 186
Chapter 19 The Fork 196
Chapter 20 Serving Utensils 205
Chapter 21 How Flatware is Laid on the Table 217
Chapter 22 The Way to Use Flatware 230
Chapter 23 The Interchange of Flatware and Serving Utensils 237
Chapter 24 The Care of Flatware

251

     
Part IV: Stemware
Chapter 26 From Glass to Crystal 259
Chapter 27 Decorative Methods and Styles 274
Chapter 28 The Different Categories of Glass 291
Chapter 29 Stemware: Shape and Purpose 296
Chapter 30 How to Place Stemware 310
Chapter 31 The Interchange of Stemware 314
Chapter 32 How to Purchase Stemware 317
Chapter 33 The Care of Glassware 323
     

Part V: Table Linens

Chapter 34 Tablecloths, Placemats, and Table Runners 331
Chapter 35 Napkins 342
     
Part VI: Serving Techniques
Chapter 36 Formal Dinner Service 359
Chapter 37 Informal Dinner Service 371
Chapter 38 Dinner Service from a Buffet 379
Chapter 39 Service of Formal and Informal Luncheon 383
Chapter 40 Service of Afternoon Tea and High Tea 385
     
Part VII: Dining Finesse
Chapter 41 The Protocol of Seating 391
Chapter 42 Giving Thanks and Making Toasts 396
     
Part VIII: Menu Plan
Chapter 43 From Food to Cuisine 405
Chapter 44 Menu Primer 414
Chapter 45 From Vine to Viticulture 422
Chapter 46 The Rudiments of Wine 430
Chapter 47 From Tea Leaves to Teacups 460
Chapter 48 Choosing the Right Tea 468
Chapter 49 From Coffee Beans to Aromatic Brew 480
Chapter 50 The Basics of Coffee 488
     
Part IX: Table Manners
Chapter 51 How to Eat Specific Foods 507
Chapter 52 Table Manners 530
Chapter 53 Table Manners in a Changing World 549

Bibliography 551
Photography Credits 559
Index 563

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